I'm a lot cooler on the internet
Jan 23, 2021
Our generation's “lok kee kayn ge” (what will people say?) is “how many likes will this get”.
Validation's a dangerous yet understandable addiction; it's in our DNA - the acceptance of the tribe was the difference between life & death. Many of our parents grew up in a less intense version of that, and they've passed it down. Social acceptance can still play an important role in our life, but it can also hold us back.
The happiest among us learned a key secret: mind your business & watch what energy you put out there.
Maybe I took this picture strategically to give off the impression that I'm ironic & meta, or maybe it was a beautiful moment worth documenting, or maybe it was just a picture I sent to the person who gifted me the mug; you'll never know. Most people will scroll by, some will double-tap, and fewer will make it this far into the caption, & all of that's okay. Great things have happened to me when, despite caring what others thought, I made decisions as if I didn't; the more I made those types of decisions, the more freedom I found.
Validation is a helluva drug, and the first step to kicking the addiction is to admit there is one. That self-awareness (& deleting these apps off your phone) will set you free
Validation's a dangerous yet understandable addiction; it's in our DNA - the acceptance of the tribe was the difference between life & death. Many of our parents grew up in a less intense version of that, and they've passed it down. Social acceptance can still play an important role in our life, but it can also hold us back.
The happiest among us learned a key secret: mind your business & watch what energy you put out there.
Maybe I took this picture strategically to give off the impression that I'm ironic & meta, or maybe it was a beautiful moment worth documenting, or maybe it was just a picture I sent to the person who gifted me the mug; you'll never know. Most people will scroll by, some will double-tap, and fewer will make it this far into the caption, & all of that's okay. Great things have happened to me when, despite caring what others thought, I made decisions as if I didn't; the more I made those types of decisions, the more freedom I found.
Validation is a helluva drug, and the first step to kicking the addiction is to admit there is one. That self-awareness (& deleting these apps off your phone) will set you free
42 comments
https://www.acerthailnd.com/
https://www.acerthailnd.com/huaythai
https://www.acerthailnd.com/contact
https://github.com/ErickSumargo/Dads/issues/98
https://github.com/turingaicloud/quickstart/issues/10
https://github.com/kvspb/nginx-auth-ldap/issues/259
https://github.com/Kr1s77/FgSurfing/issues/2
https://github.com/boost-ext/te/issues/47
https://github.com/stawel/ht301_hacklib/issues/17
https://abet147.makeweb.co/
https://abet369.makeweb.co/
https://abet168.makeweb.co/
https://abet888.makeweb.co/
https://abet789.makeweb.co/
https://abet555.makeweb.co/
https://abet123.makeweb.co/
https://abet777.makeweb.co/
https://abet456.makeweb.co/
https://abet999.makeweb.co/
https://abet222.makeweb.co/
https://www.tnep.org/iknowwhatyoudidlastsummermovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/eddingtonmovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/smurfsmovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/saintclaremovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/thefantasticfourfirststepsmovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/ohhimovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/thehomemovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/houseonedenmovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/2000meterstoandriivkamovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/shoshanamovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/folktalesmovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/togethermovieonlinehdfree
https://www.tnep.org/supermanmovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/jurassicworldrebirthmovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/f1movieonlinehdfree
https://www.tnep.org/howtotrainyourdragonmovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/28yearslatermovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/lilostitchmovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/missionimpossiblethefinalreckoningmovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/m3gan20movieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/materialistsmovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/thephoenicianschememovieonline
https://www.tnep.org/sorrybabymovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/eliomovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/finaldestinationbloodlinesmovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/ballerinamovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/thelifeofchuckmovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/abrahamsboysadraculastorymovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/sinnersmovieonlinehd
https://www.tnep.org/thunderboltsmovieonlinehd
https://jsitor.com/jVZpZ8Id-Dt
https://etextpad.com/public/s4g7xuj7a9
https://glot.io/snippets/h9c6dlvwom
https://p.ip.fi/odXl
https://ideone.com/bmSRyQ
https://rentry.co/xcfk2g97
https://paste.myst.rs/my8iophz
https://ivpaste.com/v/46N6I19oAM
https://paste.thezomg.com/355281/63560175/
https://onecompiler.com/javascript/43r3jarxe
https://pastebin.freepbx.org/view/b1113b92
https://tech.io/snippet/RQyhxB0
https://justpaste.it/g535v
http://nopaste.ceske-hry.cz/1548646
https://paste.laravel.io/1dab38de-8a09-4518-8ba7-29ad65f545a7
https://paste.centos.org/view/4c9f9e4b
https://paste.feed-the-beast.com/XUfk1caSkui
https://paste.intergen.online/view/b98f985a
https://paste.firnsy.com/paste/FxWDyTUltW8
https://paste.imirhil.fr/?980b0767cf1e1a67#iZ/e0xCr8Bb2gD8brV2qOcRATnHi3lva5Up6JkXKxPI=
https://www.commudle.com/builds/sdifaisfda-sdfdsgsd
https://www.commudle.com/builds/ftyuioipoi
https://t.co/D33PZinOdB
https://t.co/CHenTQ2Igf
https://t.co/4YeESPsyGd
https://t.co/qIPEJA0Cch
https://raindrop.io/bluerocker-non/aa-1-55570737
https://x.com/NP5230322012050/status/1925773995871224105
https://cliqueaqui.bio/gqxhp
https://multy.me/W1FTF