Don't Forget About Them – Humble The Poet

Don't Forget About Them


 

Stop trying to get over them. Our lives are simply a pile of moments; each of those moments can be a paragraph or a page in story of our lives, and each of those moments are valuable. I think some of the pain of the breakup is from fighting the change that's thrust itself on us. We liked things the way they were, new isn't comfortable, and we then feel like we'll never get over it, and the truth is, we won't..but that's not a bad thing. Our happiness doesn't come from these moments, happiness comes in the way we see these moments. The only way we can be happy is when we show gratitude and appreciation towards the moments we have, even the ones we don't consider our favourites. If we want to change the way we feel about our lives, we have to change the way we see it, and live it. Everyone that comes in and out of our lives is a gift. They teach us about life and ourselves. They bring out things in us we never knew existed. What we miss most about the people of our past can simply be the way they made us feel about ourselves. We can be grateful for having people to do so, regardless of if they're still around us, it's an opportunity for a new adventure. Let life be the roller coaster it is, it needs to be a bit scary for us to enjoy the ride. Missing someone is focusing on what we don't have, and that takes attention away from the many beautiful things we do. Also those feelings of sadness, fear, and loneliness can do wonders to help us learn more out ourselves. Pain is not an enemy. This type pain never goes away, we just get strong enough to deal with it, that's a good thing. Don't try to get over it, learn and grow from it. #BLESS “Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.” ― Dr. Seuss


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